Living 3 and half years in abusive misery was enough. Better her than me. But being the fact that she is barely 23 and he is about to be 29 I can't help but think she was tricked. How foolish to throw your future at a man after 3 months of knowing him. And poor thing, it is doubtful they are planning a real wedding in a mere two-weeks.
On Thanksgiving my son kept telling everyone of my family on the phone, "Daddy has a new girlfriend, her name is Amber." Literally two days later my ex texts me and says, "I thought I should let you know Amber and I are marrying on the 12th of December."
Your son still refers to her as your *NEW* girlfriend. *NEW* What a buffoon.
He's rushing it so she doesn't have time to change her mind.
I'd laugh if it weren't so pathetic and if it wasn't something to effect my son. Always an innocent bystander to his father's insecurities.
....or an idea that didn't cross my mind... maybe she's pregnant. It is how he trapped me. I already had the escape planned when I found I was pregnant.
But, I wouldn't change getting pregnant. My son is the most special, beautiful, perfect thing I've ever known.
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